Becoming Visible Being seen by other leather folk is so validating. Let’s talk about the power of being visible. Being Seen: Thinking About Visibility, Real Talk: Truths About Me, Protocol, Leather, the Community You may also like 1:50 “Earning” a Collar We seem to talk a lot about submissives "earning" a collar but ... gloves 2:20 Not FOMO, BLOB I've been thinking about FOMO in relation to events and think it's ... gear 2:17 Imposter Syndrome If you're dealing with imposter syndrome--some inner voice saying ... cover, gear, gloves 1:59 Mental Health and Kink Aware Professionals Being kinky is not in and of itself a mental health issue but if you ... gear, gloves 2:19 So, What is Community? What makes a community a community? Here I unpack what I mean by ... gear, gloves 2:13 Being Seen: The Moment of Recognition Seeing isn't only about being seen. It's also about that amazing ... cover, gear, gloves 2:13 Being Seen: The Dark Side Sadly, some can see your desires and use them against you. When trauma ... gear 2:14 More on Being Seen It's not a singular event but an evolution into the community. As you ... blue uniform shirt 2:19 How to Build Trust Trust is so central to the play we do. Here's how I build trust and ... cover, gear 2:19 Event Anxiety Yeah I get anxious about leather events. It's pretty normal. Here are ... gear 123»Page 1 of 3