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01 Chastity: As a Tool
2:09
What if we didn't think of chastity as something submissives did? What ...
01 Deep Boots: Overview
2:29
Let's think deeply about boots...
01 Leather as Drag: Overview
1:43
When some of my Insta videos circulated to unintended audiences, I got ...
01 Prepping to Collar: Spatially
2:55
In this series I wanted to share some of the work I’m doing to get ...
01 Romance and Kink: Overview
1:22
Let’s think about how to bring romance into kink.
01 Talking about the D: Overview
1:13
So central is it that it's in our core acronym: BDSM. But what is ...
01 That Hat Thing: Introduction
2:57
There are a lot of names for that hat some men wear... let's think ...
01 Toys as Tools: Overview
1:52
Yes, what we do is play and yes that play is a kind of work. In this ...
01 Worth: Good Boy
2:47
You can be a good boy without being good at being a boy.
01: Age and Kink Identity
2:20
There is no inherent connection between chronological age and kink ...
01: Cigars and RACK
1:52
If we're going to talk about cigars, we have to talk about Risk Aware ...
01) Leather Principles: Honesty
2:10
This is a series I did using the principles behind 12 step recovery ...
01): Bondage: Overview
1:57
In the introduction to this series on bondage we think about all the ...
02 Chastity: As a Token
2:24
Think of the device itself as a token, and as part of that realize ...
02 Deep Boots: Loggers, Form and Function
2:12
Let's think about logger boots, a great basic boot--what they look ...
02 Prepping to Collar: Physically
1:52
Getting myself physically ready, in bodily healthy and in playroom ...
02 Romance and Kink: Traditional
2:20
Traditional elements of romance can easily be integrated into our kink.
02 Submission is "Hard": The Paradox
4:31
When we look at it closely, the relationship between submission and ...
02 That Hat Thing: More on Covers
4:51
Let's think some more about covers.
02 Toys as Tools: Breath Control Hood
2:59
Hoods can be hard to breathe in! Ironically, a breath control hood is ...

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