Videos

"Earning" a Collar
1:50
We seem to talk a lot about submissives "earning" a collar but ...
01 Body/Image: My Journey
2:35
To start this series on body image I thought I would share my personal ...
01 Chastity: As a Tool
2:09
What if we didn't think of chastity as something submissives did? What ...
01 Deep Boots: Overview
2:29
Let's think deeply about boots...
01 Leather as Drag: Overview
1:43
When some of my Insta videos circulated to unintended audiences, I got ...
01 Prepping to Collar: Spatially
2:55
In this series I wanted to share some of the work I’m doing to get ...
01 Romance and Kink: Overview
1:22
Let’s think about how to bring romance into kink.
01 Submission is "Hard": Overview
2:05
Thanks Jason & Emmanuel for getting me to think about this idea ...
01 Talking about the D: Overview
1:13
So central is it that it's in our core acronym: BDSM. But what is ...
01 That Hat Thing: Introduction
2:57
There are a lot of names for that hat some men wear... let's think ...
01 Toys as Tools: Overview
1:52
Yes, what we do is play and yes that play is a kind of work. In this ...
01 Worth: Good Boy
2:47
You can be a good boy without being good at being a boy.
01: Age and Kink Identity
2:20
There is no inherent connection between chronological age and kink ...
01: Cigars and RACK
1:52
If we're going to talk about cigars, we have to talk about Risk Aware ...
01) Cruising: Preamble
1:22
A little introduction to the series on cruising. The sound is a little ...
01) How to Leather: Boots
1:56
So you want to get into leather but you're not sure where to start? ...
01) Leather Principles: Honesty
2:10
This is a series I did using the principles behind 12 step recovery ...
01): Bondage: Overview
1:57
In the introduction to this series on bondage we think about all the ...
02 Body/Image: Body Is Not Equal to Image
2:06
Before we think about how leather and kink relate to body image I ...

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