Mr. Benson, I feel, is absolutely required reading for leatherfolk and particularly for gay leathermen. It’s not that it’s a fantastic book–it’s porn. But it was so influential is shaping a set of expectations that I think continue to circulate in the community. The original had Mr. Benson reversed because camera-ing is hard so I have flipped it here, of course messing up the titles on the bookcase. š
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