For Dominants: Some Thoughts Just for You

   April 1, 2022
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"Earning" a Collar
1:50
“Earning” a Collar
gloves
We seem to talk a lot about submissives "earning" a collar but ...
01 Prepping to Collar: Spatially
2:55
01 Prepping to Collar: Spatially
blue uniform shirt,
gear,
gloves
In this series I wanted to share some of the work I’m doing to get ...
02 Prepping to Collar: Physically
1:52
02 Prepping to Collar: Physically
gear
Getting myself physically ready, in bodily healthy and in playroom ...
03: Prepping to Collar: Mentally
1:54
03: Prepping to Collar: Mentally
brown leather,
gear,
gloves
I want to get my mind ready for the D/s dynamic I want; I also want to ...
04 Prepping to Collar: Emotionally
2:27
04 Prepping to Collar: Emotionally
gear,
gloves,
langlitz
Know your baggage, be even keeled, and be open to love to help prep ...
05 Prepping to Collar: Spiritually
1:40
05 Prepping to Collar: Spiritually
gear,
langlitz
"Spiritual" can be a trigger word for queers so think of "connection" ...
06 Prepping to Collar: Temporally
2:32
06 Prepping to Collar: Temporally
gear
Collaring takes time and therefore also patience.
About Collars
1:32
About Collars
collars,
gear
Collars are important symbols for me and I invite you to consider what ...
Bottoming Is Not Submission
1:45
Bottoming Is Not Submission
gear,
gloves
Let's not confuse bottoming with submission. These are independent ...
Disentangling
2:19
Disentangling
gear,
gloves
Your submission / Dominance is natural and healthy but consider ...
Dominant Peer Groups: A Corollary
0:27
Dominant Peer Groups: A Corollary
Something more to consider.
Dominant Peer Groups: A Corollary to the Corollary
2:19
Dominant Peer Groups: A Corollary to the Corollary
Yeah, just a little more.
Dominant Peer Groups: Four
1:35
Dominant Peer Groups: Four
The last aspect we discuss is the lack of aspirational models for ...
Dominant Peer Groups: One
2:19
Dominant Peer Groups: One
gear
I tend to think that peer groups of Dominant peoples face some ...
Dominant Peer Groups: Three
2:10
Dominant Peer Groups: Three
sports gear
Assumptions about knowledge, economies of scarcity, and now toxic ...
Dominant Peer Groups: Two
2:17
Dominant Peer Groups: Two
gear,
gloves
First we talk about assumptions around knowledge and here we look at ...
I Think I Want a boy
2:18
I Think I Want a boy
gear,
gloves
Actually, since making this, I know I want a boy and I know I have ...
Making Peer Groups
2:20
Making Peer Groups
Some ideas on how to make that  happen.
On Covers
2:17
On Covers
cover,
gear
The leatherman's cover or Muir cap or Master's cap or whatever you ...
The Job of the Dominant
2:12
The Job of the Dominant
I've recently reoriented my understanding of my job as a Dominant Top: ...
Three Things to Know About Tops
1:09
Three Things to Know About Tops
cover,
gear
Hey, here are some things to know about dominant peoples of all flavors.
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