Real Talk: Truths About Me, Protocol, Leather, the Community Edge April 1, 2022 ← All Categories 1:50 “Earning” a Collar We seem to talk a lot about submissives "earning" a collar but ... gloves 1:32 About Collars Collars are important symbols for me and I invite you to consider what ... collars, gear 2:08 About Connection In the late pandemic, I consider the value of connection, which for me ... gear, gloves 2:20 Ask Permission Before Touching Do not touch people without their consent, please. blue uniform shirt, cover, gear, langlitz 2:19 Becoming Visible Being seen by other leather folk is so validating. Let's talk about ... 1:49 Body Image I just wanted to share a little bit about my struggles with body image ... brown leather, gear 1:45 Bottoming Is Not Submission Let's not confuse bottoming with submission. These are independent ... gear, gloves 2:19 Event Anxiety Yeah I get anxious about leather events. It's pretty normal. Here are ... gear 2:19 How to Build Trust Trust is so central to the play we do. Here's how I build trust and ... cover, gear 2:18 I Think I Want a boy Actually, since making this, I know I want a boy and I know I have ... gear, gloves 2:17 Imposter Syndrome If you're dealing with imposter syndrome--some inner voice saying ... cover, gear, gloves 1:59 Mental Health and Kink Aware Professionals Being kinky is not in and of itself a mental health issue but if you ... gear, gloves 2:19 Navigating Leather Events As wonderful as they can be, leather events can also be overwhelming. ... gear, gloves 2:20 Not FOMO, BLOB I've been thinking about FOMO in relation to events and think it's ... gear 2:17 On Covers The leatherman's cover or Muir cap or Master's cap or whatever you ... cover, gear 1:02 Quick Update So yeah, I went through a dark period and those close to me probably ... 0:39 Roles Are Not Sexual Positions boys can fuck; Sirs can suck cock. Our leather identity is independent ... gear 2:19 So, What is Community? What makes a community a community? Here I unpack what I mean by ... gear, gloves 2:20 Thank You I'm so grateful that people appreciate my content because I have a ... 0:21 Thank You The proper response to a compliment is "Thank you." Lord did I need a ... 2:16 The Hanky Code The hanky code served as a signaling system for many leatherfolk. It's ... gear, gloves 12»Page 1 of 2