Real Talk: Truths About Me, Protocol, Leather, the Community

   April 1, 2022
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23 videos found
"Earning" a Collar
1:50
“Earning” a Collar
gloves
We seem to talk a lot about submissives "earning" a collar but ...
About Collars
1:32
About Collars
collars,
gear
Collars are important symbols for me and I invite you to consider what ...
About Connection
2:08
About Connection
gear,
gloves
In the late pandemic, I consider the value of connection, which for me ...
Ask Permission Before Touching
2:20
Ask Permission Before Touching
blue uniform shirt,
cover,
gear,
langlitz
Do not touch people without their consent, please.
Becoming Visible
2:19
Becoming Visible
Being seen by other leather folk is so validating. Let's talk about ...
Body Image
1:49
Body Image
brown leather,
gear
I just wanted to share a little bit about my struggles with body image ...
Bottoming Is Not Submission
1:45
Bottoming Is Not Submission
gear,
gloves
Let's not confuse bottoming with submission. These are independent ...
Event Anxiety
2:19
Event Anxiety
gear
Yeah I get anxious about leather events. It's pretty normal. Here are ...
How to Build Trust
2:19
How to Build Trust
cover,
gear
Trust is so central to the play we do. Here's how I build trust and ...
I Think I Want a boy
2:18
I Think I Want a boy
gear,
gloves
Actually, since making this, I know I want a boy and I know I have ...
Imposter Syndrome
2:17
Imposter Syndrome
cover,
gear,
gloves
If you're dealing with imposter syndrome--some inner voice saying ...
Mental Health and Kink Aware Professionals
1:59
Mental Health and Kink Aware Professionals
gear,
gloves
Being kinky is not in and of itself a mental health issue but if you ...
Navigating Leather Events
2:19
Navigating Leather Events
gear,
gloves
As wonderful as they can be, leather events can also be overwhelming. ...
Not FOMO, BLOB
2:20
Not FOMO, BLOB
gear
I've been thinking about FOMO in relation to events and think it's ...
On Covers
2:17
On Covers
cover,
gear
The leatherman's cover or Muir cap or Master's cap or whatever you ...
Quick Update
1:02
Quick Update
So yeah, I went through a dark period and those close to me probably ...
Roles Are Not Sexual Positions
0:39
Roles Are Not Sexual Positions
gear
boys can fuck; Sirs can suck cock. Our leather identity is independent ...
So, What is Community?
2:19
So, What is Community?
gear,
gloves
What makes a community a community? Here I unpack what I mean by ...
Thank You
2:20
Thank You
I'm so grateful that people appreciate my content because I have a ...
Thank You
0:21
Thank You
The proper response to a compliment is "Thank you." Lord did I need a ...
The Hanky Code
2:16
The Hanky Code
gear,
gloves
The hanky code served as a signaling system for many leatherfolk. It's ...
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