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04 Romance and Kink: Love Languages
2:34
Know (and speak) your partner’s preferred love language in and out of ...
04 Submission is "Hard": Controlling Behaviors
3:20
Sometimes what's in operation is a set of controlling behaviors we ...
04 Toys as Tools: Under Pressure
3:05
In this video we think about the physical and mental sensations of ...
04: Aging and Attractiveness
2:15
Stereotypically, gay culture is considered youth obsessed. ...
04: The Penis Question
2:02
So, is a cigar just a cigar? Let's talk about the penis question.
04) Cruising: Leather Bar Overview
2:09
Before we can understand how cruising works at the leather bar we ...
04) How to Leather: Basic Boot Care 2
1:35
Last time we talked about caring for oiltan boots. This time we talk ...
04) Leather Principles: Courage
1:01
Courage, taking action despite fear, is something we do as kinky ...
05 Body/Image: Tools
3:32
Here are some of the tools I use to work on my body image. I hope they ...
05 Prepping to Collar: Spiritually
1:40
"Spiritual" can be a trigger word for queers so think of "connection" ...
05 Romance and Kink: Surprise
1:38
Combine all these elements of romance in interesting ways. For ...
05 Submission is "Hard": Worth
1:30
In making this series a lot of men talked to me about other reasons ...
05: Pipes
2:19
Just a quick chat about pipes, since someone asked in relation to the ...
05: Young Daddies
2:09
Let's dive into the idea of a "young daddy" to further unpack the ...
05) Bondage: Knots
2:11
When it comes to bondage, you really only need to know two knots: the ...
05) Cruising: Leather Bar Cruising
2:17
Now we start getting into the leather bar cruise by thinking about the ...
05) Leather Principles: Integrity
1:49
Integrity, from Step Five, is really all about wholeness which is what ...
06 Chastity: Timelines
3:16
Go slow, build up, and enjoy some surprises along the way.
06 Prepping to Collar: Temporally
2:32
Collaring takes time and therefore also patience.
06 Romance and Kink: Weaponized Romance
1:29
Make sure romance is consistent with the rest of the relationship.
06) Cruising: Leather Bar Cruising Continued
2:14
We get deeper into the seductive dance of the leather bar cruise.

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